Best dog breeds for families with kids

Updated July 4, 2026 · reading time approx. 6 min

A good family dog is above all patient, friendly and tolerant of the bustle of kids. Size and looks aren't what matter most — temperament and how much exercise and care a breed needs are. Here are 12 family-friendly breeds worth considering.

Breeds that suit children

A quick note: this isn't about idealizing breeds. Whether a dog suits kids depends on temperament, training, the dog's energy, the child's age and how much time the family has. For fuller profiles including a good-with-children rating, see our dog breed guide.

Small, medium or large dog for kids?

A smaller dog is easier to manage in an apartment and cheaper to feed, but toy breeds are more fragile and tolerate rough handling from small children less well. Large dogs like retrievers or the Bernese are often exceptionally tolerant, but need more space, exercise and food — expect higher monthly costs.

Beware demanding, working breeds

Border Collies, Australian Shepherds or Huskies are wonderful dogs, but need huge amounts of exercise and mental stimulation. In a family without time for intense activity they often become problematic out of boredom. For a first family dog, choose a calmer, less demanding breed.

What matters more than breed

The individual dog's temperament, their socialization and how much time you give them matter more than the breed. Always get to know the specific dog, not just their breed.

Rules for dogs and children

• Never leave small children and a dog unsupervised.
• Teach children to respect the dog's rest — especially while eating and sleeping.
• Involve children in care appropriately (see teaching responsibility).

Whatever breed you choose, the key is the whole family's readiness. Try our free are-you-ready quiz.